“What would you feel like if now you were the man that you want to be? How would you see the world if things were as you desire them to be?

Neville Goddard

For the past year, since I have been in contact with a lot of people who are trying to manifest their specific person, whether it is their ex or someone they truly want to manifest in their lives, I noticed that living in the end has been a heck of a rollercoaster for many of them. 

Reading all the comments, messages, and emails that I’m getting, it seems that either they don’t understand what living in the end truly means or they just have a hard time doing it.

The thing is that living in the end is not even a technique that you have to learn. I remember very well how I attracted my SP by totally living in the end, while I hadn’t even known about Neville Goddard yet. And I am sure that most of you have attracted people and things just like that too, prior to your knowledge of the Law.

I feel that at times, just knowing that we have to do something becomes a block in itself. So, why not relaxing while knowing that living in the end, is not hard. It’s just a state.

“You don’t have to remain in a state if you have made a mistake. You can change states morning, noon, and night, but the state to which you must constantly return constitutes your dwelling place.”

Neville Goddard

What does it mean, really, to live in the end?

Now, this is what I mean by “living in the end.” Robert Frost, just the year before he departed this sphere, wrote this story for Life Magazine; and he said, “The Founding Fathers did not believe in the future” – what a shock, that they did not believe in the future! They “believed it in.” He said, “We are always imagining ahead of our evidence,” and the most creative thing in man is to believe a thing in.”

Neville Goddard – Living In The End

Neville often insisted on the fact that there is a huge difference between thinking of something and thinking from something. As a matter of fact, that’s why his teaching is much more powerful than the teachings of many other law of attraction teachers.

I can think about my SP all day long, but while not thinking from the place of being the person who is already living with them, or married to them. This is a huge difference. You could be thinking of money while feeling like you are poor. You could be thinking of health while acknowledging that you’re sick. No matter how long you are thinking this way, you would probably never manifest what you’re thinking of. 

We do this every day. We think about all sorts of things, while not feeling/being involved with it. Living in the end is the opposite of that. Living in the end means that we are fully involved with our mind, heart, and senses – fully embodying what we want to be or have. No matter how much our current reality tells us otherwise.

This is where a lot of Neville Goddard’s students seem to stumble.

But the good news is that the reason we do stumble is because we are forgetting the cornerstones of manifesting, which we are going to consider here.

Why do you have a hard time living in the end?

1– You are forgetting that everyone is you pushed out

The number one reason it’s so difficult for many of us to live in the end, especially when we want to manifest an SP, is that we are forgetting that everyone is us pushed out.

You are forgetting that your SP doesn’t have any free will, but is only at the mercy of your assumption. On the contrary, you still believe that they are out there thinking thoughts that are opposing yours. If you feel this way, that’s your alarm going off, letting you know that you are forgetting that everyone is you pushed out. That’s it.

As long as you think that they have more control than you do, you are not living in the end. This is assuming the exact opposite of what you want. But since they are you pushed out, and you are living in the end with them, they are bound to act as you wish. They have no choice. Your wish is fulfilled. 

2- You are saying you are living in the end, but your actions prove otherwise.

Now, many Neville Goddard manifestation coaches have noticed that. Some have made videos about it, some have written articles about it, and yet some have posted social media posts about this.

Every time you feel the need to update the whole world about what happened yesterday with your SP, which has nothing to do with your end, you are a living proof that you’re not living in the end.

Recently, one of the I Am Love blog writers, Kriston, related to this issue in an article. I myself took this opportunity to relate to that fact on the Neville’s Students Facebook group

And I have to say that I was surprised that so many people wanted to defend the fact that it’s OK to write about updates that contradict the fact that they are living in the end.

It’s one thing to want to share what you’re going through, there are no rules that say you can’t. But you need to understand that once you do that, you are NOT living in the end.

When Neville came knocking on Abdullah’s door, trying to talk to him about going to Barbados and how it wasn’t happening, Abdullah was “rude to him” as Neville said. Because all he told him was, “How can you tell me about going to Barbados when you already are in Barbados?”. And then he slammed the door on him.

While, yes, he might have appeared to be rude, it was the only way Abdullah could make Neville truly understand what living in the end really meant.

Indeed, Neville couldn’t talk about going to Barbados because he was already there. Similarly, you cannot talk about how your SP finally texted you last night after three months, or how cold she was yesterday, or how he just wants to be friends for the moment, etc., when you are already living with them or married to them.

Now, no matter what type of excuses you may come up with, think about Abdullah or Neville being in front of you. What do you think they would tell you? 

Maybe they would tell you something similar to what Kriston so wisely commented on my FB post when she wrote: “If sharing progress makes people happy, then I am all for it. But do I think it is living in the end? No. Living in the end is not a technique or a tactic, it’s a state of being. It’s something you embody.”

Anyone truly understanding what living in the end means, can only agree with this.

3 – You are not fully trusting the process

Finally, one of the fundamental reasons why you may have such a hard time truly, faithfully, and unconditionally living in the end, is because you don’t fully trust in the process yet.

Yes, when you discovered Neville, it was amazing and you resonated with his teachings. You noticed that there was something about him that no other law of attraction or manifestation teacher has, and you fully embraced his teachings. You might have even realized that this was a major turning point in your life- a true awakening. 

However, because we have been so conditioned to believe in a certain way our entire lives, it’s not so easy to fully embody the fact that we are the Gods and Goddesses of our lives, and that people and things are at our command. So we go back and forth from that newfound God that is us, to our human us. It’s still difficult for us to let go, and we become our own stumbling block because of our human nature.

Every time that we are letting the human side of us take control, that’s when we have a hard time living in the end with full faith, that we are the Gods of our imagination and manifestation. We are forgetting that if we can imagine it, that it’s already done, because creation is finished.

So, remember these three important things, and it will most definitely help you to live in the end more efficiently.

  1. Everyone is you pushed out – no exception.
  2. You can’t speak of going to Barbados when you are already there.
  3. Do not cancel your manifestation with your doubts and fears, but rather fully trust in the process because you are God.

By remembering these three cornerstones of manifestation, as per the teachings of Neville, you will remember how to keep living in the end until you manifest your beautiful desires. Since you are the God of your universe, it is all yours for the taking. 

“It is not your due, it’s not a reward, it’s simply a gift, unmerited. And therefore you cannot lose it.”

Neville Goddard

About The Author

Sylviane Nuccio is a writer, author, blogger, and a relationship/life coach. She has been applying the Law of Neville Goddard for a year, with wonderful results. She loves to teach the Law to her clients to manifest beautiful relationships, and all of the goodies of life.


  • Bhavna
    November 26, 2019 at 10:42 PM

    This came in exactly at the time when I had this thought..”how to really live in the end”!very well explained article! Thank you so much for your wisdom! Loved it❤?

    • Sylviane Nuccio
      November 29, 2019 at 3:31 AM

      Wonderful. I love synchronicity!

    • Bhavna
      December 18, 2020 at 1:27 PM


  • Aanchal
    November 27, 2019 at 2:27 AM

    I love all the articles from I AM LOVE. I reread them again and again. I’ve always wanted to comment on how beautiful and eyeopening and inspiring they are, but I’ve always refrained from doing so. This article gave me a strong urge to just leave everything and write that it is one very accurate article about living in the end. Beautifully written. Sylviane, it feels as if you just read my thoughts and penned it. Thank you. :*

    • Sylviane Nuccio
      November 28, 2019 at 1:08 AM

      Amazing! I’m thrilled to read your comment. Thank you.

  • Gareth
    November 27, 2019 at 3:23 AM

    Amazes me the way that the authors on this website truly get it and understand it. Amazing write up, points 1 and 2 were exceptionally explained. Great article!

    • Sylviane Nuccio
      November 28, 2019 at 1:09 AM

      I am so happy that you enjoyed it and my wish it’s that it helps everyone reading it.

  • Vanessa
    November 27, 2019 at 7:24 AM

    Hi heard u don’t have to believe or have faith that what you want will come to pass but just imagining the feeling of having it

    • Sylviane Nuccio
      November 28, 2019 at 1:13 AM

      Well, when you want to manifest a specific person or thing if you believe the opposite of what you want it will make it very difficult to attract it. Trust me. I’ve tried everything when it comes to attracting SPs and things. And comments from others tend to show that it’s the same for them as well. All you have to do though is plant the seed and know that is done, while NOT contradicting it though.

    • Juanita
      December 1, 2019 at 11:32 AM

      Vanessa, how can you have faith or belief it will come to pass, when you are living in the end it has already come to pass. You have surpassed any belief it will happen when it has already happened.

  • Vishal Nair
    November 27, 2019 at 11:34 AM

    Hey Sylviane, wonderful eye opener for me, thankyou, I boldly accept the flaws you mentioned above while living in the end, I resonate with it…..but not anymore .. thankyou….?❤️?

    • Sylviane Nuccio
      November 28, 2019 at 1:14 AM

      Fantastic! Thank you <3

  • Manisha Sharma
    November 27, 2019 at 12:18 PM

    Wow! What a powerful article. I loved reading it <3

    • Sylviane Nuccio
      November 28, 2019 at 1:15 AM

      I’m so thrilled. Thank you <3

  • Barbara
    November 27, 2019 at 11:26 PM

    The hardest thing about this is being able to let go and live in t he end. I think in the beginning, we have to constantly remind ourselves to ‘live in the end’ of whatever it is we want and/or need. So I get it. It takes a while I think to work on it and I’m working on it! 🙂

  • Sylviane Nuccio
    November 29, 2019 at 3:35 AM

    Yes, at first it can be difficult because this is not something are learn in the society in which we live. It’s not something we can master from one day to the next, for the most part. It’s a journey 🙂

  • Chris
    November 29, 2019 at 6:40 PM

    Wow… just a few days ago you posted this, and here I am sick at home, all alone and wondering WHAT THE HECK DOES NEVILLE MEAN living in the end? If I may be so bold to ask a hypothetical:

    Let’s say I have a 9-5 job (I don’t) and desire one where I am traveling and making x times my current salary… how do we sustain that feeling DURING the 9-5.

    I guess that is my biggest stumbling/road block.

    (Oh, and many thanks for the article!)

  • Sylviane Nuccio
    December 2, 2019 at 2:20 AM

    Living in the end is a state of mind. Living in the end doesn’t mean you pretend or mimic gestures with invisible people who aren’t there like a child at play, it means that your assumption is complete. You know that your wish is fulfilled. That’s what living in end means.

  • Pebbles
    December 6, 2019 at 4:15 PM

    Great article! Still I‘m wondering, why do I have to actually live in the end if my desire is a promise? I‘m trusting in the fullfilling of my desire but still I could talk with my best friend about the progress I‘m making with my SP in the 3D world, knowing that everything that happens, is leading me to my wish fulfilled in the 3D world which I can then see with my mortal eyes. So no matter what I’m doing my wish is fullfilled. After all, my best friend is me pushed out, so it‘s just me talking to myself. Wouldn‘t it be a limiting belief if I‘m focusing on living in the end since everything I‘m doing or not doing in the 3D world is totally fine with my wish being fullfilled?

    • Sylviane Nuccio
      December 7, 2019 at 2:10 AM

      Well, I guess that if we are all here, it’s because we have at one point manifested Neville Goddard in our lives. Neville Goddard taught people to live from the end of the wish fulfilled. This doesn’t mean that you necessarily have to have a scene that you visualize over and over it can be a simple assumption. I’ve manifested my SP just like that with a dead strong assumption that he was mine. I could feel it with my body and mind.

      Now this said, if you can manifest a strong desire in any other way because you’ve created your own rule that’s great. But in my case, and that of many people that I’ve helped so far, unless we have at least one of the two mentioned above it tends to not be working.

      • Tresl
        May 22, 2022 at 11:13 AM

        This is exactly what I´m doing. I just FEEL, in my soul, heart and mine, that he is already mine. I don´t know how and when. But I know for sure it will happen.

  • Hope
    December 31, 2019 at 6:06 PM

    Bravo! What a gift!

  • Esther
    March 6, 2020 at 1:00 AM

    Thank you for this article Sylviane! It brought home to me yet again about what living in the end means! Not reacting and allowing our doubts and anything opposing our desires to just pass on by, and basically coming back to who we really are…its a wonderful journey of seeing my world reflect me!

  • Divya Sinha
    May 24, 2020 at 3:59 PM

    Can I manifest my ex back after 3.5 yrs of no contact? I know anyone can do it, but I don’t have confidence in myself! Please help me!

    • m
      August 16, 2020 at 12:12 AM

      You can manifest anybody! How long has it been doesn’t matter at all, be it 3 months or 3 years, you can manifest them to be with you as if we’ve nothing have happened at all! You just have to change your assumptions and beliefs on thinking the time period could be a block, slowly but surely you’ll build the confidence in yourself by affirming that you are confident, mater at manifesting and that you fullly trust the God that is within you to bring you whatever you desire.

  • Sneha
    September 1, 2020 at 11:51 PM

    That is a very lovely article. I came across LoA a little over a year ago and it has transformed my life in many ways.
    I do have a question. I am manifesting to improve my relationship with my sp making him more loving, having an engagement where he proposes me with a ring and also a wedding. In these i am confused to as what will be my way of living in the end. I almost do it from every angle whenever he texts or we talk over phone i go back to it and make those conversations even more loving. Then i visualize us getting engaged followed by us getting married.
    So to me there three things going on and i confused should i drop the loving sp , our engagement and jump right into me being married to him?

    • Sneha
      September 2, 2020 at 12:19 AM

      Like for example
      Should i wake up and be happy and feel loved to have recieved beautiful romantic messages from him or do i wake and feel happy and loved to see him sleep next to me holding me in his arms after our marriage?

  • Tony
    June 12, 2021 at 1:31 AM

    You can’t “cancel your manifestations” because they are already done. This kinda contradicts what Neville teaches and brings it back to law of attraction.

    July 12, 2022 at 12:00 AM

    This was so powerful to me and definitely divinely place in my path, so that I could get a full understanding of how to live in the end. I’ve listened to YouTube videos, but nothing broke it down where I could understand it like you did. I wasn’t even actually looking for this blog, I was looking for affirmations that would help me live in the end of marriage to my SP and this blog popped up. I clicked on expecting to find an affirmation or 2 and instead I got a better understanding of what to do. Most importantly I was challenged to see what I have been doing wrong. I even tonight had a conversation about my SP that clearly didn’t serve me. It only after reading this let me know that I have work to do because at that moment tonight I was clearly not living in the end, but instead talking against my manifestation. I’m so appreciative of this blog because from this moment forth, I will live in the end and I will not compromise my manifestations going forward. This has definitely raised my awareness a lot more. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear. Thank you so much!!! 🙏🏾♥️


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