Just a reminder for those going through the holiday blues❤️

I remember when the holidays were a source of stress for me. I placed high expectations on myself to do every single festive thing and to have all of my desires.

Even to the point of feeling left out and stopping myself from being present and just enjoying what I could do in that moment, because it wasn’t “perfect” enough for me.

Eventually I realized that the more I placed my happiness on hold, the more I was keeping my desires at a distance.

So I decided to trust that each year would get better, and release the pressure I placed on myself.

I stopped assuming that things needed to be a certain way for me to feel fulfilled and to be happy during the holidays, and instead gave myself the happiness and fulfillment I desired by practicing a lot of self love.

Then, things started to shift as I was able to create space within myself to trust I would experience my desires💖
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I truly can say the number one reason I was able to manifest my desired life is by remaining authentic.

How can we connect to the true self, by fighting with ourselves constantly?

Because when we do this, we give up on our practices too quickly.

We get up from that meditation session if we don’t immediately feel relief.

We go within and check in with ourselves only when we feel like it, and not as a new way of navigating ourselves and life.

We deem things as not working after one week (or even one month or more) of implementing new habits and practices.

Manifestation and spirituality then becomes this thing we put on a pedestal to achieve, because we feel where we are isn’t enough.

You may even begin to feel like you need to question every doubt, every fear and every insecurity.

Spirituality is not mechanical.

It’s not about just assuming something and then getting a result.

It’s built by building a connection between you, your desires and True Self.

And that may require taking a look at what you’re suppressing in the name of manifestation and spirituality.
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Discomfort through shifting states is a call to understand our True Self more and therefore a call to embrace the oneness with our desires.

But, don’t mistake the call to leave comfort states to mean we will never feel pain or discomfort again.

Love is an embracing of all facets of consciousness, and the aim isn’t to feel perfect all of the time, or to never react or make mistakes.

It simply is- it just is.

And it doesn’t need to be anything more than that.

It’s really the ego that wants to analyze and conceptualize, but awareness is simply being and allowing.

I find that another reason we may hold onto our comfort states is because allowing feels like a loss of control.

And when the ego is busy conceptualizing (although this is helpful in many instances too and doesn’t need to be completely demonized), it’s hard to realize we are trying to hold onto a state that feels safe. @jenniferramdeo

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What are some other relationship topics you would like me to speak about?

Let me know in the comments below❤️
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Beginning your journey to manifesting a secure relationship can feel unnatural and far away if you’ve never experienced it before.

We’re so used to assuming that love is obsessing, chasing, playing mind games etc., that when we dip our toes into this new being-ness it can feel really off.

For me, it felt unsafe to trust and accept that I could experience a secure relationship.

Nevertheless, knowing Neville Goddard’s teachings, I knew that the more I embodied this person, which included being mindful of my inner critic and changing the assumptions I accepted for myself, things would shift on its own even if there seemed to be no way out of that state at the time.

The clarity I needed came to my awareness as I continued to show up each day and refused to settle for less.

And that’s the beauty of practicing our new identities, is the knowing that the states we desire already exist in the vastness of consciousness.

Instead of forcing yourself to embody being someone that knows they can experience a secure relationship, remember that, that identity already exists for you.

Remember that what you‘re currently feeling and experience isn’t far off from that being, and is really just an opportunity to lean into this further.

If you see your current identity as an issue, then it will feel like you’re far away from a secure relationship.
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If you’re used to being in chaotic, insecure and unhealthy relationship dynamics, it may feel unnatural to accept that you can have a relationship that is healthy.

And when it feels unnatural, you may feel compelled to focus on what is going wrong, expecting the worse outcome, analyzing your person etc.

Because chaos might feel more like home than security and stability.

If embodying the identify of having a secure relationship feels unnatural, that’s completely okay and normal at first.

The feeling of home has to come from the love of who you truly are.

And embodying love doesn’t mean we no longer feel any of the insecurities that have caused us to accept chaotic relationships, but moreso that we lovingly hold space for these fears as we move past our identification with them.

And we continue to remember and recognize who we truly are beyond these unconscious identities.

You may think that embodying love means feeling perfect feelings all of the time and never feeling any insecurities again.

Of course, this isn’t true, but when we are so used to feeling the void and lack, we’ll want to strive for the perfection of feeling whole and complete.

Instead, there should be a balance of accepting all parts of the self💖❤️
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At first, you won’t believe or accept any of these new beliefs. And what I’ve learnt through my experience of changing my relationship identity, is that we don’t need to accept or believe anything at first, but a willingness to change.

The willingness to change your entire outlook on relationships and your relationship identity has to be stronger than only receiving surface level shifts from your person.

Instead of asking “why aren’t they doing this yet?”

ask yourself:

“regardless of what this person is or isn’t doing right now, how do I want to feel about myself when it comes to love and relationships?

What do I want to believe and accept when it comes to love and relationships?

How do I want to respond to the world when I feel like it is against me and my desires?

How can I cultivate feelings of security and safety within myself instead of seeking for it elsewhere?”.

It’s completely okay if the answers to these questions don’t arise at first.

The more willing we are to shift our perspective, the more clarity comes to our awareness. @jenniferramdeo

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As we continue to shift and show up differently, our relationships and connections reflect this.

In order to no longer settle for the same relationship patterns, we must make the constant decision to commit to seeing things differently.

We have to be willing to see and do things differently, as our True Self is not surface level, but sees and understands beyond.

I’ll be making more parts to this topic, as this isn’t a complete list of how perfectionism plays out in relationships.
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When we remember the bigger picture, we are no longer consistently getting caught up in the distractions of the ego.

Our true self and true essence is always there, behind the unlovely feelings and stories, like a soft whisper.

And the more you continue on this journey remembering the bigger picture, the louder and stronger that whisper grows.

To a point where you can’t help but remember that your true nature is beyond what the ego assumes in one single moment.

It takes practice and dedication, and that is why I always recommend to not do your practices only for your desires, but mostly for yourself.

Because naturally when we make a commitment to ourselves, for ourselves, that we will lean into our truth every day, our desires are accepted lovingly by ourselves as a done deal.

If you find it hard to remember the bigger picture, reflect on which story you’re carrying that is causing you to not want to remember and recognize it.

For me it was because it felt unsafe to do so, in fear that if I let my guard down, I may be disappointed and let down.

But the more I remembered the bigger picture and felt safe to go all in, that dissolved more and more. @jenniferramdeo 💖✨

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I’ve recently had an interesting topic come up with a lovely client of mine on trusting our own inner power.

Growing up in an environment and household where we’ve seen unhealthy power dynamics, ego trips etc., it may cause one to feel like feeling and being powerful is something bad or wrong.

Especially if you’ve ever felt small, overpowered and looked down upon, and the conditions in society we’ve grown up with.

And that could be one reason why many people have a hard time trusting that they themselves are powerful beings, and can exercise and demonstrate our creative power in a loving way, where it doesn’t have to feel like you’re an arrogant person.

Trusting our own inner power goes hand in hand with trusting ourselves.

When you set an intention, do your inner work each day, have off moments etc., do you trust yourself and the work you’ve done?

Do you trust the fact that you are one with God consciousness?

If not, I invite you to reflect on why and I’ve written some self talk statements you can reassure and remind yourself of anytime you feel like you’re not trusting yourself and your power❤️

I’ve always had a belief that the more empowered I feel, and I take care of myself, the better I am able to serve others. Because when we see through our ego stories, a renewed sense of clarity and awareness arises.

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What else would you add to this list?

In my opinion, there needs to be a healthy balance. And people have to stop shaming themselves and others if they do things differently than they do.

No one has the magical cure, we are all only doing the best we can with our own experience and knowledge.

I have manifested so many wonderful things not by following a strict vigorous routine, but by doing what felt authentic to me each day.

Neville Goddard’s teachings have always been my foundation and always will, but that doesn’t require a strict routine and it doesn’t mean never utilizing any other resource.

For example, if you’re trying to force yourself to have a manifesting routine while your living environment is unhealthy or you’re feeling drained each day, you might assume that by taking certain actions you’re not being spiritual enough.

Of course, this is absolutely false. And only you get to make that decision for yourself!

I have experienced so many pressing circumstances in my 28 years of life- poverty, chronic physical and mental illnesses, abuse, extreme trauma, death, injustice and I can say that it wasn’t easy to go within my imagination. It came with struggle and that’s why I believe it’s important we remember that it’s not a requirement to do what everyone else is doing in order to make shifts in our life.

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Have you ever tried to embody the state of the wish fulfilled only to be faced with anger and resentment and hurtful memories?

Sometimes, this is because holding onto the anger and resentment is telling us the foundation we are trying to manifest the relationship from.

Dissolving what’s underneath our anger isn’t for other people, it’s to shift our overall self concept and being.

It’s so that we no longer have to carry unlovely relationship cycles and patterns and insecurities and fears.

Of course, naturally when we release anger and resentment, we open ourselves and our hearts to the idea of knowing we can experience the relationship we desire.

We soften a bit more and are willing to be more vulnerable with our spiritual practices.

This also helps a lot when you’re in the relationship and navigating experiences with your partner, so that you’re not caught in a negative loop all of the time- manifesting hot and cold results.

When we see beyond our own ego masks, we are usually able to see beyond other people’s ego masks too.

This self awareness helps us gain insight on what is being mirrored back to us, and what we need to shift within.

There are many helpful practices that can help us pause and manage our anger better before we react.

Have you ever had anger and resentment come up when trying to embody the state?

Share your experiences below💖

If you need help with dissolving anger and resentment or reflecting on what is behind your anger and resentment, I have coaching sessions available in the link in our bio, to help guide you on your journey to manifesting a healthy relationship💖

Note: This is not a complete list and each person and situation will be different.

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The feeling of the wish fulfilled is unique to each person, and how it may feel like for you might be different for another person.

This is why it’s important to get to know ourselves and our inner power.

When you have a desire, reflect on what it means for yourself to have and be and experience that desire.

And just remember that we are not manufacturing the feeling from thin air, but bringing out what is already a part of our being.

And the more we connect to our true self and our power, by showing up each day to recognize who we are under the false conditioning, our natural feelings of the wish fulfilled arise on their own.

The inner work and practices you’re doing each day isn’t in vain, just remember that! It will lead you to exactly where you need to be❤️

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When you speak to yourself, does it feel soothing and validating?

Or does it feel like you’re forcing something and rushing your thoughts away?

After soothing my ego, I usually take the time to really connect with my inner self.

I love to ask myself, “what do you need right now? What are you seeking and feel like you’re lacking?”

In this way, you’re truly taking the time to get to know YOU. This in itself is an act of self love and self empowerment.

And when we do this, we connect more to our inner power- our true selves.

Our state and self concept shifts.

When speaking to yourself in a validating way, you can also place your hand on the area of your body that feels tensed and closed off and gently embrace yourself.

Take your time, your desires are not running away!

Let me know in the comments what comes up for you when you practice this and ask yourself these questions❤️

P.S. If these work for you- great! This is for people that aren’t feeling results from doing this.

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Something I see a lot in the community is a teaching to just affirm random affirmations to get another person.

Here’s what I have to ask…

✨ Would you TRULY feel the need to always affirm things for your partner if you were in a beautiful, healthy, long lasting and committed relationship?

✨ Does it sound natural, or effortless and freeing, to feel like you always need to affirm to get another person to love you, to respect you, to pursue you etc.?

I bet the answer is no.

✨ Do you want to get into a relationship always having to do this or do you simply want to exist and have the relationship unfold beautifully while you show up for being you?

And this isn’t to judge people who do this or to put affirmations down, but to help you bring awareness to the fact that there is a much BETTER way of maintaining and experiencing your desired relationship without all of the games you think you need to do to get there.

The best part, you won’t only get text messages here and there. Dates here and there. Just them looking at your Instagram story or liking your photos.

No, you’ll experience the entirety of what a flourishing relationship truly means.

I don’t know about you, but I definitely never liked the idea of having to constantly affirm to maintain my relationship (did that and it helped temporarily but never gave me stability).

What I have outlined in this slide isn’t created by doing affirmations only and occasionally living in the wish fulfilled here and there.

It is a true commitment to yourself. To coming back home to your true self.

Notice where you can begin to shift in these areas and do it for you!

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One type of relationship that I always used to experience were the ones where things would go well and then we would break up and not speak for weeks.

And then the usual back and forth 🤦🏻‍♀️

If you’ve ever been in my position, you know how crappy that feeling is!

It’s an awful cycle to be in, but when I completely changed my entire being and trajectory on relationships, things shifted tremendously!

I used to look at other couples and wonder how I could experience those things and experience that kind of relationship.

I realized that the people who were experiencing a relationship that is healthy and filled with love (no matter what life threw at them), had a certain essence about them.

They carried themselves a certain way and had certain relationship beliefs.

In other words, they were in a different state. A one that seemed so far away from mine at the time, especially coming from someone who grew up being surrounded by unhealthy relationship dynamics!

If you would have asked me a couple of years ago if I believed I could have the relationship I have now, my entire body would’ve tensed and I would’ve been met with hundreds of ego stories.

Now things have completely shifted and that’s because of the commitment I made to myself first.

If you’re experiencing this right now, things truly can shift and change and you’re not tied to the same pattern and cycles.

But embodying your desired relationship goes beyond just practicing the feeling of the wish fulfilled and doing techniques.

Here are some few things to start incorporating in this slide!

Note: of course this isn’t a complete slide and your beliefs and self concept will differ.

If you need help manifesting and experiencing your desired relationship, or even if you’re currently in one and would like to strengthen how you show up and tackle things, I have coaching sessions available in the link in my bio.

If you see a date or time that doesn’t work for you, email me at jennifer@iam-love.co 💖

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When I realized that the only reason my ego felt triggered in any given moment was because of a past story coming to the surface, it felt easier to validate them.

It meant I no longer needed to accept every single thought that was arising, nor did I need to rush them away.

Because what I was feeling wasn’t my fault, but simply an old conditioning.

I used to believe that every time I was triggered it meant I was reacting, but this is absolutely false!

Each time you pause and bring awareness to these moments, you’re shifting more and more.

If you need help with step by step practices on how to navigate your triggers so that they feel much easier to handle when they arise, I have coaching sessions available in the link in my bio💖✨

Note: This is not a complete and exhaustive list of what triggers mean and represent. Each person and situation is completely different. Please only refer to this if it resonates with where you are and your needs. ❤️

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When you recognize that you’ve made “third parties” mean something for you, and that’s why you hold onto this fear, you will no longer spiral with the identity you’ve unconsciously accepted for yourself.

You will no longer see third parties as an issue or as an obstacle, but as an opportunity to let go of the unconscious stories you’ve accepted for yourself.

And when you shift within and make this all about how you’re seeing yourself and relationships, instead of micromanaging or manipulating the 3D world, things shift and change.

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More ways to contribute making manifestation a lifestyle.

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