When I look at my person, and I communicate with him, I don’t see someone that needs to be changed, or that I need to influence. I don’t see him as a separate being from me, that I need to fix. I don’t view that moment I am with him, to grab onto my legs and hope I don’t “mess” things up, or fear that he may say something that may trigger me. I don’t feel the need to make sure I am validated, or analyze every word he says.

When I look at him, I see myself. I see every aspect of him, as me. I feel open, and welcoming, and comfortable, like I can be myself. Well, because I am speaking to myself. I see and feel love. I see the growth in him, because I realize the growth in me. When I speak to him, I don’t look for the next thing to change, or what more I need to work on. I look for the lovely aspects of him, because that’s what I do when I look at myself, and when I remember who I really am.

I don’t feel the need to be chased, because I feel the love that we already are, in every moment. I know he loves and adores me, and will be there for me, because that’s what I see when I see him. I saw it when we were at our worse, and he told me he liked someone else, and that he was no longer in love with me. And even now when we are at our best and in an amazing relationship, and improving every single day, I still see it. I am not in fear that things will revert back to the “old times”.

I know why I had created that in the past. It was a “reoccurring pattern” in my life, to be chosen as “second”. In that moment when he told me that, about another person, I stopped and laughed. I didn’t see it as an opportunity to remember my patterns, or how I had always been “hurt”. I saw it as an opportunity to not have this be part of my life any longer. I decided, no way, I am not settling for less this time. This isn’t going to be my reoccurring pattern. I didn’t entertain anything, and I held true to my assumption and knowing that we are both in love with each other and meant to be. I held within me that he truly loves me, no matter what, and that this thing that came up, was just another opportunity for me to grow and remember who I really am.

Not long after, this is exactly how things unfolded. And because I realized even more how powerful I am, and that my person is every aspect of me, our relationship became even more amazing than it was before.

How are you viewing your person? Do you anticipate that things will go bad? Do you look at them and only see yourself, and the best of what they are? Do you see this as an opportunity to become comfortable in who you are? Or do you view it as a moment to point out how broken you are, and that you’ve had this type of pattern your entire life?

I didn’t choose the latter. It was what the old Jen would have always done. But this time, I chose different, and I am so glad I did.

Follow and Share:
About Author

Jennifer is a freelance writer currently working on her first fiction novel. Living in the labyrinth of New York City, she has learnt to use the Law in every aspect of her life to awaken the Godself within her. Her aim is to spread this beautiful knowledge to others so they may also find peace and love within.


  • Laura
    November 17, 2019 at 6:26 PM

    That’s really inspiring. Jen. Thank you for another amazing article. Can you write an article talking about specific person and how you have manifested your SP? In one of your previous articles, you mentioned that there will be an article about SP. thank you very much.

  • SJ
    November 17, 2019 at 8:38 PM

    This article is simply beautiful!!! Your articles are ALWAYS amazing and life changing. Thank you!!!

  • Sophie O
    November 17, 2019 at 9:20 PM

    Dear Jen,

    Thank for sharing how you broke free by choosing to rest in your Assumption of the desired
    outcome. Beautiful article as always. Your article reinforces what came to mind in listening to Neville’s lectures these last few days.

    I was struck that Neville never spoke of ‘overcoming’ or dealing with ‘obstacles’ to our desired END.
    Many have felt Neville ‘left things out’ or ‘wasn’t clear enough’ when lecturing on how to manifest.
    Truth is Neville taught and practiced, you go RIGHT TO THE END – DESIRED OUTCOME.

    Neville did not add nor take away anything from what he had Imagined. I think there is a Bible quote about this.
    If the pictures show us differently, it only means stay with the desired end and assume ONLY THAT… IAM THAT IAM.

  • Thais
    December 19, 2019 at 7:54 AM

    Querida Jennifer! Seus artigos são simplesmente fantásticos, estou no processo de começar a enxergar a vida de uma maneira totalmente nova com essas leituras. Eu leio todos os dias para me lembrar de quem realmente sou. Eu nunca mais quero me esquecer. Apenas continue nos iluminando! Abraços e gratidão

  • Thais
    December 19, 2019 at 7:56 AM

    Ops! Quero dizer que ESTOU iniciando o processo de enxergar a vida de uma maneira completamente nova com essas leituras!!!!😉

  • Irene
    December 24, 2019 at 9:06 PM

    What a beautiful writing! That’s how I view my person.

  • Hope
    January 6, 2020 at 11:16 AM

    Umm…. this was good to the last drop! Absolutely amazing❤️

  • Tori
    March 17, 2020 at 8:45 PM

    I love this, it helped me realize that the new story, is what’s real and the real way I should view my sp, Thankyou

  • Shay
    May 12, 2020 at 5:41 PM

    Thank you ❤️ I started to cry as I was reading this ✨ so moved and inspired by this and you. Awakening ❤️


Leave a Reply

error: Content is protected !!