In this article, I want to debunk many rules you have been told when it comes to manifesting, and the rules that have shaped the illusion of who you think you are.
This is going to be another long post, and it is complementary to the last article I posted: everyone is you pushed out – life is a dream. If you haven’t already, I suggest you read that one first. Grab some popcorn again!
But, I first want to state, that I know there are many debates in the manifesting community, as to who is right or wrong. Which words are or aren’t correct, which steps are, and the way, etc. I am sure you have already heard it many times.
The truth is, everyone is correct. Yes, every single person is correct. That is because whatever someone believes to be true for them in their reality, regarding how manifesting works, and how their reality works, is exactly how their universe will be and how things will unfold for them. One way may be easier, or have more limitations than another, but the outcome is all based on one thing— what do you assume to be true? Even the assumption that one way is easier or more limiting, is still just another assumption.
If you believe you need an abundance of self love to manifest, then that is what will occur. If you believe you cannot think about the how or when, then that is what will occur for you. If you believe you can’t mess with the middle, then that is how the process will unfold for you. If you believe you will create a time lag, or that manifesting something only occurs in divine timing, then it will. If you believe you can manifest overnight, in 2 weeks, or in 3 years, then it will.
If you believe you need to lift a finger and take action, or if you don’t, then that is how the process of manifesting will unfold for you. There is no right or wrong way.
It isn’t the actual process, or even the knowledge, it is if you assume it will work for you. You create your own knowledge and processes. This is why there is no consistency amongst success stories, because for each person, it will work differently based on their assumptions.
Different teachings, manifesting techniques or tools, will work differently for each person, based on their assumptions, and what they are accepting as true for them and for their reality.
Everyone is you pushed out, however, so don’t forget that even Neville, other manifestation teachers and gurus, are still yourself pushed out. They are not their own separate entity or God, apart from yourself, that you absolutely must abide by everything they say. This includes myself too, and the things I have written in my articles.
Even where I stated above, “every person’s reality”, is a paradox in and of itself, because you can never experience anyone else’s reality, only yours. Even me stating that there is a manifesting community, is implying that there are other peoples realities that I can experience. But even as I write this, I still know I am essentially communicating with other aspects of my consciousness- self, because that is the only thing I can ever experience. It is the one and only reality.
I fully believe that as I do this work of helping you guys, I am helping myself as well. Because you are all other aspects of myself, and parts of my consciousness. In your reality, you have manifested me, and all of us here at ‘I AM Love’, to help you on your manifestation journey. Well, that is what I am going to assume anyway 😉
If I believed that I live in a world where world peace is normal, everyone understands the Law perfectly, my dog can talk and people can fly, then my world would be like that. But I don’t, so that is not how my reality unfolds for me. I know that I still do have my own beliefs, which are just stories I tell myself. And I am actually perfectly okay with that, because I know I will soon wake up from this lucid dream I call life. So I don’t take anything too seriously.
So long the stories you tell yourself and accept as true for you, do not limit you or make you or your other “dream characters” unhappy, then you should do, think, and feel whatever is the most beneficial to you in your reality.
Which is why I always tell my clients, make your own rules. Create your own process. Do what you want, and what makes you happy. Do not be afraid that you are doing the wrong thing. Do not be afraid of the process. Because although you may be trying to make sure everything is done perfectly by worrying, and doing more research, you are forgetting that everything is already perfect, and nothing can go wrong.
The Contents Of Your Consciousness
It is impossible for you to see other than the contents of your consciousness. Your world in its every detail is your consciousness objectified.
Objective states bear witness of subconscious impressions. A change of impression results in a change of expression.
The subconscious accepts as true that which you feel as true, and because creation is the result of subconscious impressions, you, by your feeling, determine creation.
You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it.
To seek on the outside for that which you do not feel you are is to seek in vain, for we never find that which we want; we find only that which we are.
In short, you express and have only that which you are conscious of being or possessing.
“To him that hath it is given” [Matthew 13:12; 25:29; Mark 4:25; Luke 8:18; 19:26].
Denying the evidence of the senses and appropriating the feeling of the wish fulfilled is the way to the realization of your desire.
Mastery of self-control of your thoughts and feelings is your highest achievement.
– Neville Goddard, Feeling Is The Secret
Maybe you saw a success story or a post on social media, or any other forum, that triggers your curiosity. You may wonder, “Well, since they let go, and did this, then am I doing something wrong?”. Or another very common question is, “It took a long time for them, so will it take that long for me?”.
When you ask these questions, or get triggered and upset by them, you are still assuming that, that person has their own separate reality apart from yours. You can only ever experience what is alive within you. You can never experience another person’s reality or universe, only yours. So if you see someone posting something on social media- whether it be venting, or a success story, you can, and should, reject and accept whichever parts of it you want to apply to your life.
For example, I barely come across stories in which people speak about manifestations taking years, or even months, to occur. Within me, I have accepted that I always manifest my desires either instantly, overnight, or within 2 weeks to a month. I am very happy with this rule I made for myself, and I do not waver out of it. I have also accepted this rule for other people in my reality as well. If I come across the opposite, or something that I do not like, or would not prefer, then I reject it. I either revise what I saw, or say “this doesn’t apply to my reality or to me”, and then I move forward.
Because I know that everyone is me pushed out, this life is a dream, and I do not need to dwell or nitpick anything. It will not make a difference, it does not serve me in any way, and since I understand I am God, I know I have the power within me to conform my reality to as exactly as I please.
So why stress over something that is literally irrelevant? Things only become relevant for you, the moment you focus on it, and start to contemplate it. You are accepting something in your reality, the moment you wonder if it can happen to you. You are not doing yourself, or anyone else, a favor when you worry about things, or have doubts and fears. All of which can be accepted/rejected by you, and only have as much power as you give them.
Even society is yourself pushed out. There is no society that can make you feel a certain way, or dictate your reality, or how you feel, other than if you allow it to. Society will be whatever you assume society to be.
Always choose your preference. When you are not choosing your preference, and settling or contemplating on something, you are forgetting who you really are.
To attempt to change the world before we change our inner talking is to struggle against the very nature of things. Man can go round and round in the same circle of disappointments and misfortunes, not seeing them as caused by his own negative inner talking, but as caused by others.Neville Goddard
Nothing is caused by others, and everything you come across, as well as the people and how they act, what they post, say, etc., are all because of what you have alive within you– the contents of your consciousness. People have alive within them, whatever you have alive within you. This Law doesn’t just apply to your romantic partner, or your friends and family members, it applies to everyone in your reality.
Desiring To Be With A Specific Person
The moment you have a desire to be with someone, they are already yours. It is already done. There is nothing left for you to do than to convince yourself of this truth, until you have shifted states, and then your external reality will match your state.
I like to assume, that because everyone is me pushed out, then the person I desire, must also desire me too. You are meant to experience this relationship, or marriage, or friendship, or whatever it may be, with this person.
When you deny yourself these desires, it doesn’t do yourself, or anyone else a favor either. Because they are you, they are literally you. Being with a specific person means it is in the best interest for you and the other person, and any anyone else involved too (like their family or friends).
However, if you contradict this, then it only means you are not fully believing this, and so your external reality will match your state. As I write below, there is never any lack, only abundance. There is an abundance of you being with your specific person, and an abundance of you not being with them. Which one you experience, is solely dependent upon you.
The story that you accept and tell yourself, of what and who is already yours, is going to help you shift into that desired state. Everyone else is simply just in another state that you have placed them in due to your assumptions. No one is ever concretely or permanently a type of person. You have the ability to lift them out of any undesirable state they are in, in any given moment, and place them in another one.
The lovely Nicole said something beautiful that I think everyone should keep in mind. She said something along the lines of, “Look for results within, not on the outside. So long you keep looking for results on the outside, it means you haven’t changed your assumptions yet.”.
When manifesting a specific person, you may get caught up in looking to see where they are, if they have texted you, etc. But in there lies your true assumption “It isn’t here yet”. The only reality that is important, is the one within yourself. Because that is the one where the external came from. Therefore, it should be the only thing you should care about. You cannot expect to focus on what you don’t have, and what “others” are saying or doing, and expect anything to change.
Remember, you are not trying to manifest or trying to create anything. That is all done for you, and has been taken care of. All you have to do is assume differently, perpetuate the only reality you want to experience, and be gentle and patient with yourself. You can just as easily lift a person out of a state, just as easily you placed them in it.
Communicating In The World Of Ceasar
I truly do like to look at my reality as a waking lucid dream. I go through my day observing everything and everyone, really engulfing myself in the moment. I sometimes even wonder, “Oh, what part does this person play in my dream?”. I communicate with everyone, for the most part, from a very loving perspective. How could I not, they are only myself anyway.
I receive many questions from people asking me, “How do I communicate with others, while still living in the end?”.
By now, you know that there are no others. Others will conform to you and believe and say whatever you assume. When someone asks me something about a desire I am manifesting, I do not think much about my answer. It does not matter what you say or don’t say, it won’t affect or hinder your manifestation in any way, unless you start thinking it will, or questioning or worrying about it.
Since they are just you pushed out, then who cares how you respond, and how they reply to you? If it still feels like a lie to you, or if you know you have not fully shifted into that state of believing, then you can either say nothing, or simply say “I will get back to you on that. I’m working on things”. Something very neutral.
It’s okay if you say this, and know within yourself that your desires are yours. It does not matter at all. Living in the end just means you know your desires are yours, and that nothing can stop it. It does not mean you are pretending or faking all day long, or constantly telling yourself the new story. Telling yourself the new story only serves as a reminder to you, whenever you need it, of it already being done. So you can become convinced of this one and only truth.
With every action you take on the outside, remember, assume that the response you receive from others, will always be in your favor. People only serve to echo your fears, doubts, and the wonderful things you have alive within you. So there is no need to nitpick or analyze why your friends, partner, or family members said anything. Go within and assume differently. It is the only way to change things.
There Are No Past Circumstances
We are shifting from one parallel reality to the next, every single second. Faster than a second actually. Whatever you see in front of you in any given moment, is simply just one screenshot, one parallel reality, from the infinite amount of realities that are already existing.
This screenshot right here, has absolutely nothing to do with the previous one you just had five minutes ago, and the one you will experience in the next five minutes. But it seems like that, and that is why we have the concept of linear time still present in our minds. But there is no linear time.
This means, that when you want to manifest something, whatever occurred in the past, whatever was said and done, and the things you experienced, have nothing to do with what you want to manifest. It has nothing to do with who you really are. It doesn’t matter how bad things went, what happened when you were younger, or how badly someone treated you, it has nothing to do with your manifestations whatsoever.
When you react, it is okay. It doesn’t mean you should keep reacting, but you should not dwell on it. Because your reactions and “mistakes” from 1 hour or 1 month or 1 year ago, do not dictate your manifestations or effect it whatsoever, unless you allow it to. We all have our moments where we react, slip up, or forget who we really are. I do many times.
If you are reacting all of the time, however, and never resolving the issue, then that is when you really have to ask yourself which state are you currently in. Once in a while is fine.
Previous circumstances do not condition or determine how your manifestation will occur, or the level of intensity that it will. You must label everything in your reality, as exactly the way you want it to. Including your “past”. When you do not fully understand this, then your past beliefs and assumptions can come up to manifest. Which is why we say to never take your cues from the external reality, because it is your past beliefs and assumptions.
However, the more you practice the Law, and the more you accept that you are the God of your reality, these current circumstances, which are echoing your old beliefs and assumptions, can change instantly, or even overnight. It does not have to take a long time, only if you assume so. Nothing needs to take a long time to manifest, and you do not need to wait months to accept you are God, or wait for it to “click”, just because you had a traumatic childhood, you reacted really badly, or you had a devastating breakup that seems like it cannot be saved. It can be saved! And there is a reality right here where it is, but it is up to you how willing you are to accept that and allow it.
There are no limitations on your manifestations, only the ones you hold on to.
I made this mistake before, where I waited for things to click, and waited to overcome my trauma I experienced. Of course, this only kept me in a state of waiting, and “some day”. Once I realized what I was doing, I finally accepted that I am God no matter what. That the past does not dictate my manifestations or the process, and that I AM God, no matter how I feel, what I do or don’t do, or what I am experiencing.
Limiting Beliefs, Negative Patterns, Blockages, Mental Miscarriages & Other Limitations
Which brings me to this topic. Since you know by now, that you are the God of your reality, and that you should only be thinking, acting, and reacting, from your Godself, then ask yourself if God has any blockages. Ask yourself whether God would carry around a story of having negative patterns within themselves that needs to be resolved or overcome. And then ask yourself, if I am truly, really God, and it is my natural, default being, then how many limiting beliefs do I really have?
The answer is, you don’t have any of those things. You have as much limiting beliefs, blockages, and negative patterns, as you keep saying you do, and as much as you keep carrying around that story within you. Like I said before, the past does not dictate anything. Only you create the rules here and get to dictate everything, including the stories within yourself.
When you say that you have something engrained or deep within you, or that you have a bad habit, etc., you are identifying yourself with your scared, ego self. It is the part of you that only knows what it is comfortable and familiar with. Even when you say you are bad at persisting, or that it is hard for you to believe.
The more you accept these things for yourself, the more you will feel powerless and victimized, and at the mercy of your own self. But the more you create your own rules, and only go within, to connect with who you truly are, the quicker these old stories will fall away and fade. Sure, they might come up every now and then, but you know better now. You will know how to handle them and tackle them.
Your doubts, fears, limiting beliefs, blockages, patterns, and so on, are still you pushed out. Meaning you manifest and accept these on your own will. Nothing else is dictating it.
I personally do not like to get to the bottom of my negative fears and doubts, or try to figure out the source of it, or what belief I am holding on to. Focusing on this, and “digging deep” to find out something, only makes me focus on it even more. It makes me feel like I have something to overcome or figure out. I find it unnecessary. I already know where they came from, it’s the old stories I used to tell myself. I do not need to know anymore. I would prefer to just move forward, and focus on who I really am, and that these doubts and fears are merely illusions.
If something is really troubling me, then I might revise situations that still come up. But for the most part, I am now able to move forward, and not be stuck in an illusory past.
Your subconscious blockages, and anything else that is troubling you, will fade away the more you accept you are God, the more you accept that you are this all powerful creator, and that there is nothing or no one outside of you.
You are already perfect, whole, complete and worthy of your desires, and you do not need to do anything to prove that you are. The value you seek, is within yourself. You do not need to justify your desires, and you do not need to be happy or positive all of the time. You are allowed to have every one of your desires, because as Neville says, “to desire a state, is to have it”. It is done.
I am an emotional and sensitive person, which I am perfectly okay with, and I actually love that part of me. In the past, I would try to overcome it and I would try to force myself out of it. Now, I accept it, and I have created a rule for myself that every time I cry, something amazing is happening to me. And guess what? That is exactly what occurs. I do not let my emotions, or any other “external” rules, dictate my reality. Because those are still me pushed out, and nothing is ever set in stone.
You don’t have to accept anything like I did, but it was my own personal choice. In this way, I never have to worry about anything being an issue or hindering my manifestation, because I know that simply cannot be true for me, since everything is always working out, and I am always on the right track no matter what.
There are no such things as half or incomplete manifestations, or any of the other made up terms. I know Neville spoke about mental miscarriages, and he is allowed to have his own beliefs, but I personally never entertain that idea.
As I wrote in my article ‘The Bridge Of Events‘, in my universe, there is no such thing as slipping up or making a mistake. I always view everything as working out for me in my favor, and I label everything as part of the bridge to manifesting my desires. No matter how much of an obstacle it seems, or how bad or good it is.
In a universe where there is nothing but abundance, then even your off moments can be part of this. And it is, so assume and accept nothing less.
Even the term lack is an oxymoron, because there is never any true lack. It is just an abundance of lack. There is only ever abundance. Abundance of everything you desire, and all of the wonderful experiences, with the people you want to spend this waking dream with.
Create your own rules for everything, because this is your birthright to do so.
Manifesting Time Frames – The How & When
The whole vast world, and everything and everyone in it, is yourself pushed out. This also goes for the rules and conditions you place on your manifestations.
You can 100% determine the how and when something will occur, as well as place a certain time frame on your manifestations. We already do this all of the time so naturally.
For example, you have already determined how you will get to work, which days you have to go to work, how you will receive money (could be from your job), when you will receive it (weekly/biweekly), etc. You do this so naturally without even flinching. If you really think about it, you are doing it all of the time. Yes you may not consciously be doing it, but that doesn’t mean you can’t. You can. You don’t have to and you can completely just know it is done, and allow it to happen on it’s own, leaving the how and when to the God within you.
For me, personally, I do whatever I feel like doing. If I need extra money by a certain amount of time, for an unexpected expense, or an item I want, I will assume it is done and assume it will come in the set amount of time it will. If it’s something general or if I really don’t care when it manifests, then I just assume it is done, and move on.
The concept of divine timing, to me personally, feels like I am leaving my manifestation up to some outside force, so I never use this term.
The reason we tell people not to worry about the how or when, is because of exactly that– they worry. Worry is the key term here. Worrying means you still do not believe your desires are yours, and that it is basically unstoppable and irreversible, and nothing can undo it. Usually when people worry about the how or when, it is because they think time is running out, or that their person or thing is going to slip away from them.
They also worry because of what the external circumstances are showing them, and so they conform themselves to the outside, and base their manifestations on that. But like I said before, there are no conditions or limitations on your manifestations. The external reality is irrelevant if you truly want to manifest other experiences.
Experiment manifesting with the how and set time frames for yourself. See how it makes you feel, and watch your state. This is all dependent upon you, not what anyone else says. I sometimes like to assume that my desires will come in a certain way, and sometimes I just know it will manifest in an even more amazing way I can imagine. I enjoy the wonderful anticipation, knowing it is mine, and nothing can stop it. It feels blissful and peaceful.
I want to end this article (more like a mini novel lol), discussing a topic I was asked about a lot, since my previous article was posted. I will be completely honest and transparent.
I do believe in multi universes, and in other dimensions etc., however, not necessarily in the way people describe it these days.
The truth is, I can never experience what is occurring in someone else’s reality. I do not believe in a collective consciousness, or that someone else’s reality can overlap with mine. I also do not believe that there are multiple versions of me running around in other people’s universes. For the simple fact of, my human physical form, and so is everyone else’s in my reality, are not real.
How I look in my reality, can be 100% different in someone else’s reality, and how I act, and even my name. So then the question arises, is it even me? No, ‘I’ am whatever you assume me to be in your reality. I may have a different background, name, job, appearance etc., and so on. Our physical forms are just as changeable as any other other aspects of our universes. It is why we can manifest physical appearances, slow down the ageing process, and cure diseases and illnesses. It’s not that we are actually removing anything, we are simply selecting a reality where that thing doesn’t exist, another screenshot per say, where our appearance can even look completely different.
So, yes, I do believe in multiple universes. However, in my universe, I believe I (my consciousness), created my physical form (and continues to do so based on my assumptions), and everyone else’s as well. I believe my boyfriend was created for me in my universe only– his looks, job, personality, all done by me. And in ‘his’ reality, he may not even look like that. He may be a unicorn for all I know lol.
I do not want to confuse you any further, but I dare you to think outside of the box. You are God, and nothing is impossible. I have heard stories of people being resurrected from the dead, people consuming toxic waste and poison, as if it is a piece of cake, and nothing happening to them. Even science is us pushed out.