I had a wonderful session with a client the other day, where the topic of letting go was the main focus. I realized how many people are caught up in this story they tell themselves. This story they tell themselves that they absolutely must drop their desire or let go of it completely, and that, that is the only way to be able to manifest your desires.
We actively preach to understand who you really are on our website and our other social media, because truly, this one concept can be a total game changer for you.
Who Are You? You may think you are (your name), but you aren’t. It is a merely a shell that you’ve inhabited to experience life here as a human. Not only that, but you are literally in your own universe. There are infinite amount of universes, just as there are infinite amount of realities, and in each universe, you are experiencing your own personal dream. You have total and complete freedom to be able to experience life exactly as you choose.
So what does this mean really? It means you can quite literally create your own rules. Yep, your OWN rules. You no longer have to abide by the rules of someone else, unless it serves you in some way. This means you don’t even have to follow the rules of people laying out to you how to manifest something. You can create your own rules, and you should. Each story you have going on within you, is an assumption about yourself, others, and the world around you that you decided to accept as true for yourself and your world at one point. You did this because you were unconscious of who you are.
Assumptions harden into fact.
“When imagination fulfills itself so naturally, it is easy to question that your assumption had anything to do with it. But I tell you it could not have happened without your assumption, for your awareness is the one and only cause of the phenomena of life.”Neville Goddard
The story you tell yourself of letting go and dropping your desire, is truly just that— ANOTHER STORY. Why did you accept this story as true? Because you saw the success of others who said “as soon as I let go and dropped my desire, I manifested him/her back”, or “as soon as I dropped my desire, I received that money from an unexpected source”. Now, I did this in the past too. But as I manifest more and more each day, and spend time with my loved ones, I realized this story we tell ourselves.
Your awareness is placed so much on the fact that you need to let go, that when you actually let go, that’s when your desires manifest. Why? Because you created that rule for yourself. And since the Law is always working, and you are God, this rule will now be expressed in your reality and you will see evidence of this in your external world. This means you will convince yourself so much that you only manifest when you let go, and so therefore you only manifest when you let go. See how you’ve created this rule for yourself in your universe?
It is truly unnecessary. Now, I am not saying you should think about your desires 24/7 and obsess about it. For one simple reason, that probably isn’t natural to you. And as you might have read from my other posts, this needs to be natural for you. If you are thinking about something all of the time and obsessing about it, chances are it doesn’t feel natural or good to you. You are most likely still in lack.
You don’t wake up and say “ I want to breathe today. But first I need to let go. I must live in the end”. See how that makes no sense? This is exactly how you should be viewing all of your other manifestations. I get tons of questions from people asking me if they are doing something right or wrong, or how to do a certain thing. But if this is your universe, and you are God, then why would you think you can do something wrong? You can only do it right.
No results, are still results. If you are manifesting something undesirable, you are still doing it right. Meaning you were living in the end of that undesirable thing at some point, and so you manifested correctly. Yes, you didn’t manifest what you wanted, but you still used the powers within you, by making assumptions, to manifest it. Everything around you is a manifestation. You are literally manifesting an entire world all at the same time.
Drop these old stories and old assumptions you have created. You don’t need to let go or detach from your desire, you have to drop this story completely and only place your awareness on the end. If your awareness is placed on how to let go, and that you need to let go, or that you’re terrible at letting go, then guess what? You just created a rule for yourself. You’re going to keep focusing on letting go for months, rather than strictly on the end.
The reason why you manifest quickly when you drop your desires is not because it’s “small”, it’s because it’s so insignificant to you, that you didn’t create a story for it. I highly doubt that you create a story for manifesting free cups of coffee, butterflies, pennies, etc. You just assume it’s so easy to manifest because it’s so insignificant and so you drop it. Some people actually do create stories for these small desires, and that’s probably because they are so detached from who they truly are. They are still too identified with their limiting human beliefs.
Assumptions harden into fact.
The God that we know of in the Bible, do you think he was walking around telling himself that he needs to let go? He simply shifted his focus and awareness on what he desired, and it always manifested. When you are focusing on letting go, you are not living in the end. You are still in desire/lack mode.
There’s a reason why Neville says go straight to the end. Because everything else is insignificant.
“Until man lets go of that which he is now conscious of being, he will not become that which he desires to be; and Judas is the one who accomplishes this through suicide or detachment.”
“The twelfth and last of the disciplined qualities of the mind is called Judas. When this quality is awake man knows that he must die to that which he is be- fore he can become that which he desires to be. So it is said of this disciple that he committed suicide, which is the mystic’s way of telling the initiated that Judas is the disciplined aspect of detachment. This one knows that his I AM or consciousness is his savior, so he lets all other saviors go. This quality — when disciplined — gives one the strength to let go.” ~ Neville Goddard
What you’re actually letting go of is your old concept of yourself. You need to let go of being identified as someone who is limited by the rules you place on yourself. God cannot do anything wrong, and God never questions whether he/she is doing something right or wrong. God just knows.
Again, you are not constantly reminding yourself to let go and live in the end of the things you are currently doing in your day to day life, and yet it manifests so easily and effortlessly. All you did was create a story at one point that this is how your life is, convinced yourself of it day in and day out through your self talk (mental diet), and lived completely in the end. Meaning you perpetuate it each and every day.
For those who are telling themselves they’re bad at letting go or that they need to let go, what you’re actually doing is living in the end of needing to let go. You’re living in the end of not living in the end.
Stop wondering about what to do or what not to do, and just stick to the end. Only do what makes you feel good. Don’t force yourself to follow the rules someone else accepted for themselves just because it worked for them. It felt good to them, and so it worked. Feeling Is The Secret.
Start now by creating your own rules. Assume that nothing you do is wrong and that even if you slip up, your desire is still manifested. Because it is already yours and existing now, so there is no reason to not assume this. It doesn’t need to be created. Your reality where your desire is yours is not waiting to be created somewhere and is going to disappear just because you had a low day.
Your universe is always waiting on your instructions only, not someone else’s. Stick only on the end and convince yourself that this is yours now. Stop worrying about letting go. Stop worrying about resistance. You create your own resistance. Your focus should only be on the end. Anything else is because you don’t understand that this is how reality works.
I remember when I was manifesting my boyfriend back, it only took 2 weeks and I constantly thought about him. The thoughts were so overbearing at times, and I definitely was not “letting go”. Throughout all of this, I just convinced myself that I’m the only woman for him, and I’m the only woman he loves. That nothing I can do is wrong and that he’s still mine. I would constantly place my awareness on the love we have and our amazing relationship and marriage together. I did not wonder and ponder what I’m doing right or wrong or that I’m not letting go. I simply shifted my awareness and assumed we are perfect for each other in every way. I didn’t even care that I was crying. I’m God and nothing I do is wrong. You have to develop this mindset. How? Through persistence.
This is how a God/Goddess thinks. All of the other stuff is simply you being caught up in your old stories and limiting human beliefs.
Test it for yourself. Change some of these uncomfortable and unnecessary rules. Be brave and be bold.